in praise of boredom

Living too much of an exciting life? Time to unlock your inner potential and get boring

Not everyone leads an exciting life. Then again, exciting lives are not for everyone. Not everyone goes to glitzy 'bashes' (that's what exciting people call parties), or winters in the South Sea (exciting people often take nouns and verbify them up to make them more exciting, too), or flies out to exotic locations for a 'shoot' (exciting people are always doing this kind of thing, I'm told. I'm not 100% sure why). And not everyone wants that kind of excitement. After all, what have exciting people got on a cup of tea and an episode of Downton Abbey? Nothing, that's what.

not even a little bit exciting

 It's easy to be exciting and host dinner parties and work on 'projects' and 'travel' (cough, holiday) and 'winter' and 'do' things all the time. That's what exciting people are always at, whether they're posh and living in a silvery space house, or urban and trendy and living in some 'warehouse' making sculptures. They're always 'doing' things. I say, sod doing, and start doing nothing. 

It takes a special kind of skill to live a boring life. There can be dark days. Dark nights. Dark times when you don't know if you can go on, and are tempted to end your Boring Life by hosting a luncheon and wearing a cocktail suit. Boringness can be difficult to stomach. It can be hard. It is hard. But it's not a choice, rather a calling. To live a boring life is a big ask. But it's a challenge I, as a purveyor of the Boring Life, am willing to rise to.

Tumbleweed: a frequent visitor to somewhere boring

Take a look at some of the signs that you, too, are eligible for the dull/boring life of the do-nothing.

1 Every time you go out you go to the same place, with the same people, drink the same crappy wine, say the same mildly diverting things and go home at the same time. Who needs variation when you can have the same thing every week?

2 You watch the same movies over and over again because of a reluctance to get 'involved' in a storyline that you're not familiar with. That's why I've seen the same five movies way more than five times.

3 You would go to your lectures every week... but staying on the couch is just too much of a Yes.

4 You want to read a book... but magazines are just easier.

5 You look at your cat and envy her easy, warm, and (may I say) boring life. The life of a cat. What's not to like?

This is living

6 You've only got 10 hours a week at college, and already you're fearing the day you'll have to actually do some real work. Shudder. 

7 You go to sleep and look forward to breakfast. I don't know why, but it always strikes me as a clear indication that you are cut out for less-than-exciting times in your life if you look forward to eating cornflakes.

And yes, I do all of the above. It takes a certain kind of verve (I like to call it 'excellence', myself) to be a boring lifestylist. So, go on, embrace your boring side, and bon bore!

And now for another Mildly Interesting Thing You Might Like:

This artist, Oliver Jeffers, writes kids' books but also draws great random pictures which you can see on his website here. Lots of them have the sea and rain and little cute people in them. Well worth a wander over to!